Forget the Handbooks—These 40 Wholesome Parents Are Writing Their Own Love-Filled Rules
Because sometimes the best parenting move isn’t in a book—it’s in the moment
Let’s be real: parenting is one part love, one part chaos, and about eight parts improvisation. No matter how many articles you read or how many times you rewatch that gentle parenting video, real life will always throw in a juice box explosion or a meltdown at the grocery store. And that’s where these parents shine.
Grumpy Sharks rounded up 40 stories and photos of moms, dads, and caregivers who tossed out the rulebook and led with love, humor, and humanity. Whether it’s a dad learning how to braid better than a salon stylist, or a mom turning her child’s wheelchair into a Halloween chariot, these parents prove that being wholesome doesn’t mean being perfect—it means showing up with your whole heart.
These aren’t your picture-perfect moments. They’re the kind that leave lasting imprints, where kids grow up remembering how safe, seen, and celebrated they felt.
#1. Thanks Dad!
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#2. Dad teaching his children some manners
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#3. The lengths a parent has to go for their kids
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#4. Dad sleeps downstairs on the sofa bed with elderly dog to keep him company since dog can’t get up the stairs anymore. ❤️
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#5. My dad was admitted to the hospital right before Christmas. We didn’t know if he would make it home at all and especially not for Christmas. This is my parents slow dancing to “I’ll be home for Christmas” on Christmas Day.
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This heartwarming collection comes from the community-driven spaces of r/MadeMeSmile, r/wholesome, and r/Parenting, where people share real-life moments of parenting that break the mold and lift the spirit.
These aren’t curated influencer snapshots or parenting advice from a corporate page. They’re raw, candid moments of parents just trying their best—and sometimes, being unexpectedly brilliant in the process.
We, Grumpy Sharks, selected the best of these love-filled, laugh-worthy parenting wins to remind everyone that the most powerful parenting doesn’t always come from instruction—it comes from intention.
#6. So my parents took a beach vacation with their dog and sent me this pic.
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#7. He is 94. She is 87. Their love story is continuous for 68 years. My parents.❤️
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#8. I left home for the military a few months ago and my dad took a pic of my dog sleeping on my bed
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#9. As a dad raised by an awesome mom costume maker, I decided to keep up the tradition with my boys!
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#10. My daughter who has ASD received straights Ds on her report today. She cried and said “I’ve let everyone down” this is my report card for her.
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Some of these parents didn’t follow any advice column or parenting podcast—they just knew what their kid needed and made it happen.
Like the dad who wore a tutu to dance class because his daughter was nervous. Or the mom who held a full funeral for her kid’s stuffed animal—because grief matters, no matter the scale.
These actions might look small from the outside, but to a child? They’re monumental. They say, “You matter. I see you. And I’ll meet you where you are.”
It’s emotional intelligence at work—and it doesn’t always look polished, but it always feels right.
#11. The growth chart door at my parents house. 30 years, 5 kids, and 17 grandkids later and still going.
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#12. Which One Is Her?
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#13. Mom helps her son with cerebral palsy skateboard for the first time
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#14. Great parenting example
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#15. Dad turned 58. Moved from South Korea to Brazil when he was 13. He loves playing tennis so much that I remember my mom saying “you can play tennis every friday,but AT LEAST ONE FRIDAY A MONTH YOU WILL TAKE ME OUT ON A DATE!” when I was younger lol. A tear rolled from his eyes when he saw the cake <3
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I once saw a video of a dad holding a cardboard sign that read “YOU’VE GOT THIS!” while his son ran laps at a school race. But the son wasn’t first. He wasn’t even close.
Still, the dad cheered like he was winning the Olympics—jumping, fist-pumping, the works. The kid grinned, picked up the pace, and finished strong.
It hit me. That’s what parenting should be: not pushing your kid to be the best, but showing them they’re already enough—even on their slow days.
#16. My dad was worried my deafblind dog wouldn’t recognize him after a year of quarantine but I think she did
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#17. Thanks for the clarification, Dad.
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#18. My Dad is afraid to fly, so when I was 5 yrs old I made him a doll to hold on the plane. Mom just sent me this picture. He is packed to come visit me. The doll is 43 years old! I love my parents very much.
We don’t speak as often nowadays due to personal reasons, and while we’ve tried to reconcile, it just hasn’t worked yet. I continue to try because I hope to have a relationship again with them someday. But my mom sent me this photo of me (left) not long after meeting my parents and then baby brother, and it made me happy of all the good times I had with them. I hope one day I can again. And dad I know you use Reddit, if you see this, hi.
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#19. Yesterday was my gotcha day (the day I met my adopted family) and my parents sent me this photo.
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#20. OMG, my heart is exploding right now. Dad of the year just passed out candy to everyone on the flight so his 3 year old could trick or treat
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According to a study published in Child Development, children raised in emotionally supportive environments develop stronger self-regulation skills, more empathy, and higher academic achievement.
And here’s the kicker: what matters more than the frequency of discipline is the tone of parental interaction. Encouragement. Validation. Calm response.
When we look at these 40 parenting moments, we’re seeing love-first parenting in action. Not permissive. Not controlling. Just present.
#21. Put on my dad uniform today and began the journey of fatherhood! I had to use my dads actual shoes cause my wife wouldn’t let me buy dad shoes.
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#22. My boyfriend moved out of his parents house last year, he’s been replaced already.
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#23. My father has been hospitalized with complications from treatment for esophageal cancer since Friday. My mother is in the middle of chemo for gallbladder cancer, and hasn’t been able to visit him because the hospital is too dangerous for her. Today his doctor let him meet her in the courtyard.
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#24. Not puppies and kittens, but my parents asleep on the couch holding hands is still pretty cute
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#25. Dad gets (pretend) vaccinated so daughter will be less scared
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We remember the birthday cake, yes—but more than that, we remember who stayed up late to frost it. The costume made from bedsheets. The bedtime stories that went off-script. The way our parents showed up even when they were tired, broke, or unsure.
These images and stories resonate because they tap into a universal desire: to be loved not just when we succeed, but especially when we don’t.
That’s what these parents offer. Not perfection—permission to be human.
#26. My dad (who has always hated cats) sends me pictures of my cat every time she hangs out with him.
My dad has hated cats all of my life and swore up and down that he would never let another cat in this house after our last one passed away. Now, he calls my cat “putty-tat,” tells me how sweet she is and how much he likes her. Every time he sees her, he goes “hey puds!” and starts petting her lol.
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#27. I asked my bar guest what she was writing. Turns out she has 3 daughters and she writes 5 lines a day to each of them. These will be gifts when they get married one day. Mom of the year.
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#28. My youngest son asked my dad if he knew a wizard who could tell him where to find magic treasure. My dad made a map and hid magic treasures around our property and took him on a treasure hunt.
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#29. In 2001, my parents bet me that if I did not drink, smoke, or do drugs by 21, they would give me $1500. Here I am on my 21st birthday holding the contract I signed when I was 8.
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#30. My parents are recent empty-nesters. I get these pictures every Wednesday.
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Dr. Daniel Siegel, clinical professor of psychiatry at UCLA, notes: “When children feel felt—when they sense their parents truly understand their inner experience—it builds a foundation for lifelong emotional resilience.”
That means when a parent puts down the phone and really listens—or hugs after a tantrum instead of scolding—it changes how a child learns to process life. And that’s the kind of legacy these parents are building.
#31. My friend’s boyfriend was not happy about his kindergarten picture. His parents still have it framed in their house 20 years later.
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#32. My dad finally found out about my tattoo and won’t stop giving me shit for it
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#33. These Parents
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#34. When I was 6 years old, my mom picked me up from school with her hair looking different and I totally freaked out. 20 something years later she still gives me a heads up when she changes it to mentally prepare me 😂
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#35. Proud Dads
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Whether you’re a parent or just someone who’s ever been loved by one—try to pay it forward. Write a note. Give a hug. Celebrate someone’s tiny win.
Because as these 40 stories show, the smallest gestures of understanding often leave the biggest emotional footprints.
We, Grumpy Sharks, believe parenting isn’t about doing it “right”—it’s about doing it with heart.
#36. I’m a disabled college student who just graduated….I can’t decide if my parents are hilarious or horrible human beings. 🤣
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#37. I Bet Teachers Were Happy
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#38. happy wednesday, my parents just sent me this pic and I can’t stop laughing
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#39. My apartment lost power for two days. I complained to my dad, and minutes later, I got a text: “They’re on the case!”
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#40. “Seriously, You Can Literally Tell A 3-Year-Old Anything, And They’ll Believe You”
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These 40 wholesome parents didn’t follow a script. They followed their kids. Their instincts. Their values.
And in doing so, they gave the rest of us something beautiful to witness: parenting that’s soft without being weak, funny without losing depth, and brave enough to lead with kindness.
So if you’re figuring it out as you go, and loving as hard as you can—congrats. You’re already writing your own handbook. And it’s a good one.
